>It occurred to me on Informed Consent, that my profile said little or nothing about me. About who I am, what makes me tick. So I wrote an ‘about me’ section.
I’m DK, (Daddy Karl) a leather daddy. If in doubt, Sir usually suffices. However that’s not all she wrote, not by any means. That’s just who you’d be dealing with on a day to day basis. I am at other times known as; Bastard, Master, Daddy, Bitch, Mistress, Whore, the pampered and much adored lil Kat (lol), even quiet little Trina. Yes, there is very much more to me than meets the normal eye. Still, most of you won’t ever see more than DK, so don’t sweat it.
I’ve been around within the public BDSM community since the late 90s, and have been with both my wyves for nine years (though Luisa was initially two years LDR from NY). Yeah that means I was at the original Bridge, but had only watched and read about Moonman’s Dream. I’m also the head of my own leather family. I take that role more seriously, value it more highly and work damned harder at it than I ever have at anything else in my life, before or since. I willingly have total responsibility. Sometimes I weary a little from that somewhat incredible task, but I do know for a fact that it is always worth it in the end. They mean more to me than my own choices, my own desires, they come first and always will. I will fight to defend them with my life, as much as I would my own children. Know that. Believe it. Don’t fck with it.
I am profoundly polyamorous. That means that no matter how much in love with you I am, I can be just as madly in love with others too. However I’m also quite openly a hypocritical polyamorist too, sorry, because if you’re mine, then you’re just damn well mine. ~slow smile~ However I’m not exactly selfish with my loves either; I do share them with each other if they so desire. Read that paragraph again and deal with it. Tough, it’ll never change and believe me I’ve tried.
Leather, SM and hot sweaty leather sex. Controlled violence, brutality, nasty, filthy, gagging sex. Packing. Willing orifices. Consenting unwilling ones. Making love. Making someone cry, not with pain, but with breath and touch. Showing a woman how truly beautiful she really is, helping her to see herself through my eyes. With the strength of my love rather than my muscles… which, however, are perfectly sufficient. Dominance, submission and slavery. But not pushovers, manipulators, whiners or wusses… only a strong, intelligent woman with personality and character, who knows her own mind, but chooses to bend it to my will. In other words if you don’t wish to bend at all, and want to fight me instead (outside of occasionally and within my own agreed parameters i.e. punchplay) then please take it elsewhere; I’m not interested.
I’m an occasional masochist, but only very occasional, and to my very well skilled/trained wyves (Rachel & Luisa) alone, not to mention solely under my own personal directions thank you very much. I’m oft times driven to vampiric urges and requirements… solely to those willing to be my donors of course. I have enjoyed many years now of exploring all my darkest sides and now I contentedly accept and enjoy all those beautifully sadistic aspects of myself. Again, only to those who come willingly.
I am many other things; mother, teacher, guide, friend, sister and witch… dedicated, fiercely loyal and nothing if not honest. I am stronger than most, protective, deeply passionate, open hearted and territorial. I am powerful, yet also (apparently) have the softest, biggest heart. Spirituality with real dreams, I believe in my long term vision. I’m just a soppy old dyke with a few somewhat twisted urges.
I have learnt from many mistakes over the years and am enjoying my 40s, secure in who and what I am and can offer, and expect in return. I love and adore very generously, I give and offer more than you can even begin to imagine. I will draw out the very best in you, you can believe that. The deal? I expect and demand total honesty, respect and obedience. If you doubt it, try me. ~soft smile~